narcabuse

lifeinthepicklejar

Apr 15, 20238 min read

Devil's Triangle

The narc got caught in another triangle or affair before mine. I had heard little bits of this story. Of course from the narc’s smear...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 8, 20235 min read

Why Did I Stay?

Hindsight is almost always 20/20. At the end of a narcissistic relationship, there is rarely closure. It is incredibly difficult to make...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 7, 20236 min read

Programmed

A Narc deliberately gains psychological and emotional control over another for their supply. By the Narc refusing to acknowledge...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 6, 20235 min read

It's A Pattern

Narcissists will stop at nothing to humiliate, embarrass, shame, and endlessly perpetuate their lies to boost their own esteem. They need...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 5, 20235 min read

Pre-meditated & Calculated

Narcissists carefully study their prey during the love-bombing stage. They mirror empathy to get to know the most vulnerable parts of...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 4, 20236 min read

It's More Than Jealousy

Healthy jealousy in a relationship can be communicated and logically resolved. Naturally, we all fill in communication gaps with our own...

lifeinthepicklejar

Feb 2, 20236 min read

Collecting Red Flags

Consistent and Unresolved Jealousy = Red Flag Narcissism at its core is a low sense of self-esteem. This makes it extremely easy for...

lifeinthepicklejar

Dec 20, 20225 min read

You Did This Before Me

I reached out to Jen. The experiences we had in our time with him ran parallel to each other. She has been such a source of kindness and...